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To Wszytko Boję Się ( All That I Fear)

Sunday, April 1, 2012

So, I am pretty much a loser because my second orientation was two weeks ago and it is now two weeks later haha. I really hope I don't make this a habit because there is nothing I hate more than exchange blogs that take forever to update.  I do have a legitimate excuse though, last weekend was my birthday(GO ARIES!!), and I didn't really spend a lot of it inside. I finally turned 17 and I got to admit that it is pretty weird. What is even more weird is that next year I will be 18 and celebrating it in Poland! I wonder what type of cake I'll have and how I'll feel about coming home so soon seeing as this time of year most of my exchange friends only have 3 months left here( specifiquement toi Manon!) . It's crazy how big of an impact these exchangers have on your life, and it is very depressing imagining them gone as if they were just memories. In the very back of my mind though, I kinda do want them to leave. I know this is horrible, but I just want to be able to leave already. My head seriously bursts into a thousand particles of happiness when I think about leaving. I have had to keep myself as distracted as possible so not to think about it.
Swim team has started so with that and homework I really don't have that much time to think about it, but neither do I have much time to study polish. I usually end up cramming on the weekends, but on the bright side I am almost done with declension. Declension is probably the hardest part of polish and it just involves changes nouns into seven different forms depending on grammatical aspect and the three  genders, plus another 7 for their plural variants. Don't panic though some of it overlaps and maybe one word can really only be changed 10-14 various ways.

Anyways back to the orientation, it was very long I have to say.We got our blazers that we were measured for the previous time and we got to learn more about culture shock and different situations we have to deal with. We also went over monochromic societies and polychromic societies and how there are many things that we don't notice in each others cultures because we assume they are the same. For instance, the fact that the U.S.A is very time obsessed and everything must be at a set time as opposed to many latin american countries that are more relaxed and tend to not worry so much. At the end though we got a great dinner and we danced or something similar to that; I don't think many of us were very talented, but me and my friend ,an outbound to Brazil, turned it into a sort of crazy tango.
The following day we went through a lot of the same, it sometimes gets receptive but I guess they really want us to get the B's down. However, the highlight of it was meeting the rebounds. Especially when they told us about reverse culture shock, how you come back from your exchange and you are sometimes angry, and you stop agreeing with so many of the things your country is. They also emphasized that people don't really understand you are gone for a year how you come back and people think you are the same person but you have totally matured and you may not have the same interests of mind set, and that that is the most difficult part of reverse shock. I loved that I got to hear this from students who actually were there because they are always the most valuable source of information.
They also told me to just have fun and like everyone else that knowing the language is really crucial especially when you are at school because you are only interesting for a couple of minutes until they find out you can't say anything. It was overall very helpful and I am glad we have these orientations.

Now that two weeks have passed since this date, many people already know their city,and it makes me cringe with jealousy because I won't get to know til around July: waiting really is the hardest part. I have also begun to watch polish films and I watched Bad teacher in Polish although they call it Bad Woman. I am not sure why. It is really helpful to watch them with polish subtitles because like I said before reading is number one. My friend has also lent me some cd's and I have been listening to a lot of polish music; I am posting a link to those who want to know how it sounds.

Na Razie,

Angel Salas


Rotary International terms

outbound: a student leaving their home country(interchangeable with inbound depending on viewpoint)
inbound: a student in a new country(interchangeable with outbound depending on viewpoint)
rebound: a student who has returned home from their exchange
Rotex: a rebound that has joined the Rotary organizations to help other exchange students
yo-yo: a student that has been on two exchanges(super-rare)
YEO: Youth Exchange Officer-- the person in charge of the program (local- Risa Lang; district- Wyn Spiller)
host family: the family that houses the student on their exchange
orientation: super fun, yet occasionally boring meetings in which exchange students meet other outbounds and also meet incoming inbounds.
counselor: the designated person in the Rotary club for the student to go to if there is a problem
THE PACKET: a super important packet that must be filled out in order to on exchange, and must have BLUE INK
guarantee form: a form that states that the student has a place to stay and will attend school
TRP: Temporary Residency Permit
ISIC: International Student Identity Card-- this gives me discounts all over Europe, especially on travel.